Age in Marriage

        Most of the Chinese girls would like to get married with the older man than they are, but not more than ten years in general case. I think that the women like to be protected and be loved by men, so the older men could give the safe feeling to the younger women, also the Chinese men would like to show their power to protect women. They are proud of that way. That is why most of couples in China who are younger wife and older husband. Limit for the not more than 10 years, I think that has some reasons. First,the big different between both ages will have different thought. The similar thought is very important for a marriage because it will take the couples go different way. That could not combine to be a good family. Second, I think 10 years could make people's looking have big different. Most of the girls like their husbands look almost the same age with them. If you go out with an old man, that the people think he is you father, I do not think the girl will happy.